The words always belong to my mother.
May 8, 2016
SHE HAD ALWAYS BEEN FRAIL, just a wisp of a girl.
She was born early.
No one thought she would live through the night.
The house was old.
It was drafty.
She had no bed.
They wrapped her in a towel and placed her in a shoebox.
The shoebox was too large for her.
She cried a little.
But mostly she slept.
She weighed one pound and one ounce.
When the doctor came back the next day to prepare the baby for burial, she was still breathing.
It was the beginning of a new life, a hard life – back when the black clouds of the Great Depression hovered like a gravestone above a nation.
Do with what you had or do without.
Mary Eunice grew up among the bayous of Louisiana.
She hated gators.
She hated snakes.
But still she fished whatever body of water she could find.
Life was simple to understand.
Catch a fish or go hungry.
When she was sixteen and entering high school, she sat down with her father and asked for money to buy school supplies.
He has a hard man.
An austere man.
He was broke.
She said he threw a fit that night.
She said he made her cry.
She told him softly, “I’ll never ask you for money again.”
She never did.
Mary Eunice packed her clothes and headed for East Texas.
Oil was on the ground.
Money was in the banks.
There were jobs waiting..
She found work as a waitress at Herb Smooley’s café in Turnertown.
“Why did you go to work in a café?” I once asked her.
“So I could have light bread any time I wanted it,” she said.
In time, Mary Eunice had the three things most important to her.
She was the writer in the family.
Mary Eunice Pirtle wrote in her journal every day.
She wrote thousands of words.
They were a rambling memoir of sorts.
She published articles in newspapers and in magazines.
She had the gift.
I simply inherited her words.
And she loved the ones I wrote more than her own.
She told me.
I lost my mother twice.
Once to Alzheimer’s.
The final time for good.
She’s gone now.
But in a sense, she’s still around.
Every time I write, and I write every day, the words aren’t mine. The words belong to her.
I know it.
And so does she.
Happy Mother’s Day